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Why did I stop a few things? 18.

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 Why did I stop dating the Tunisian guy in Poland? In 2014, we visited his uncle, who lived in Paris. He lived there with his second wife and her son. She was born to a Muslim mother and a Christian father, and her religion was Christian, as in Muslim, the father's religion decided about the kids' religion.  She drove us to Versailles to check out the castle, once, when I was alone with her. She told me I must break up with the guy, as he wanted to sell me as a prostitute in Paris.  She was shaking, crying and more; she even gave me a ring to prove her loyalty. It was a gold ring with a white pearl. I finally did not say anything, accepted the ring, and I left the ring in the Orly airport. I pushed the ring between the pillows of a sofa.  Then, in a week, I moved back to Hungary. Source: https://www.avis.co.uk/drive-avis/car-hire-locations/europe/france/paris/orly-airport

Why did I stop a few things? 17.

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 Why did I stop working in my last job in New Zealand in 2012? As the laboratory manager, from Brazil, whose name was Thiago, made it possible for me to finish my job earlier. Source: https://blog.sheydance.com/everything-you-need-to-know-about-latin-and-reggaeton-dance/ How? He spent a lot of hours in the laboratory, and at the beginning of the harvest, we were on the same shift, but then I was on the night shift, doing lab work during the harvest. In the beginning, I was talking a lot, also about the 2008 harvest in New Zealand. That was when he learned I also had a Brazilian boyfriend. Who worked in one of the restaurants where we liked to go to eat chicken nuggets. The Brazilian guy from 2008 was a divorced man who had a 4-year-old child at that time. He was surfing in his free time, so his child is 22 years old this year. He left his wife and child in Brazil and lived in New Zealand, Blenheim.  Tiago was the son of a MA Economist from Brazil, who was a universit...

Why did I stop a few things? 16.

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 Why did I stop talking online to CBS people? I took my first education, HD1 at CBS between 2020 and 2022. That time, it was obligatory to join a Facebook group, where they told us that only students can be... I checked the subjects, and I tried to compare the list of the students from the CBS system and the Facebook group members.... There were a lot of fake profiles. First, I thought they used it to help students get a job at big companies. But then I realised the fake profiles, in most of the cases, only stole things from me, ideas. The farther we progressed in education, the worse it became! I had a chat break for a long period during the CBS studies. Why? In the first semester, I worked together with a girl from Brazil, who had a son, around age 8, and she was divorced from a Danish man. So the son nowadays can be around 14 years old. She was always mocking me if I dared to take 2 mins break to change the diaper for my second son. When? During the online meeting, when we were ...

Why did I stop a few things? 15.

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 Why did I stop having online IT mentoring? I studied a lot of courses online, you can read here on my other blog: Coding Drage https://codingdrage.blogspot.com/ I also had a person, who was hired by Hack your Future, and he once or twice a month gave one hour of volunteering at an IT course. It was only online! I stopped taking those classes, as once, I was offered or adviced or asked by him: "S*ck my d*ck!" I acted as I did not hear what he said... Then I cancelled the following meetings....  I continued to study alone. Source: https://www.inc.com/samuel-edwards/5-tips-for-learning-coding-with-no-prior-experience.html

Why did I stop a few things? 14.

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 Why did I stop going with my kids to a specific football club in 2024? For them to get more kids was a must, no matter what way! You can also give birth to extra kids! How? What? If you did not sum up with another person, then you were out... The chef told me she had 4-5 kids from 4 partners or similar... No, thank you! I come from Hungary, where they teach family planning, budget and more...  Nobody has the right to force you to get pregnant or have more kids for yourself. Being a coach to kids does not mean to give birth to all of them.... So I stopped to go to that spesific club, I never went back there!!!! Source: https://www.istockphoto.com/illustrations/big-family

Why did I stop a few things? 13.

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 Why did I stop studying Psychology at the University of Debrecen? It was already very odd for me when, in our very first class, the teacher said, 90% of the students who apply for psychology are mentally not ok. They only take the program, so they can heal themselves.  A very small number of psychologists can help other people, as they are too busy to heal themselves.  I still continued my studies, although it was a giant red flag! Then we had 13 subjects in one semester. Yes, not like in Denmark, where the maximum is three per semester.  I managed to pass 12 of the 13 subjects in that semester. Which subject did I fail? Biology. Why? The teacher, who had zero Biology diploma, he was a Chemist Engineer. He did not understand that I am Melinda, and not Judit, who is my sister, and 6 years younger than I am. That time, we looked very similar to each other. He had nostalgic feelings about my sister from the time he was an Italian teacher in a gymnasium, where my sister...

Why did I stop a few things? 12.

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Why did I stop going back to work for a specific wine company in New Zealand, and then I chose another to work in 2012?  As you remember, in 2008, I was also in South Africa, and from there I travelled to work in New Zealand. Why? I wanted to stay in South Africa, but I thought that if I travelled to New Zealand, then the Hungarian guy would be nice. But he was not! Already in the first week, he called me "hulye picsa" and a similar thing, which means "damn ass" And then he used two of my classmates, two girls, to make my life hell. Then he also got friends with two psychologists in the wine company, and they also made extra hell in my life. If it was enough, they made a big mistake. I was supposed to make a wine transfer together with another person, and they all decided that nobody would work with me; they all went on a smoking break, while the head supervisor was reading sexually influenced men's magazines in his office.... The final outcome was that I did th...