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So I quit this program as well!

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 I finished 4 programs at FC Barcelona, and I don't wish to progress further with the Women Football.  NO COMMENT

Not everybody needs education!

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  More:  Kick the Ball, Football  https://kicktheballfootball.blogspot.com/

So is there any reason to have Women Football?

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 No... as most of the women, even in the same gender, hate women! It is no Women's Rights! It is not Women's Sport! It is only another way to show women's bodies and give fewer and fewer rights to women! My grandmother, who first taught me football. She was a fighter; nowadays, it is difficult to find a woman like her.

Why did I stop a few things? 21.

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 Why did I stop participating in Judo classes? I used Judo to protect myself from sexual harassment. IN my primary school, it was pretty basic that boys touched girls on personal body parts. I didn't want it! So I first told them to stop, but they continued. So I used Judo, to make it clear, stop! In the last 30 years, nothing has changed in Europe. Girls are forced to stop to protect themselves. I was forced to quit Judo, as they did not want boys to be stopped.  It was ok to torture girls... and girls were not supposed to protect themselves and say stop! It is the same in the 2020s! In the other part of Europe as well.... Girls, women have fewer rights than in the Soviet Union....   Just like 30 years ago, nowadays, there are a few women who help men succeed in this shit. So a few women can have a better life, and 90% of women can suffer ....  Source: https://oregonsportsnews.com/a-beginners-guide-to-learning-judo/

Why did I stop a few things? 20.

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 Why did I stop playing piano? I was so much into music and music education as a child; I had a piano, a flute, and a keyboard/piano at home. I played for hours by myself. One day, my father wanted to punish me and took away my keyboard/piano. I told him, if he doesn't give it back right now, I will never play again! He kept it for three days. I never played again.  It took me 29 years to start again! In Denmark, in the 2020s, especially after the COVID-19 lockdown! There are a lot of adult people who think they can treat other adults as if they were kids in the Soviet Union! That is not freedom! That is not democracy! That is not human rights! That has nothing to do with more equality for women! Source: https://www.danguitar.dk/nux-npk-10-el-klaver?c=11157&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=23630273890&gbraid=0AAAAAD_YyzAy4WziJgirgzq34oPCmRZBN&gclid=CjwKCAjwzLHPBhBTEiwABaLsSh58tpO7UyO-gmxM3GPuY2_j_fUDU5NGkCuNAy1t2eUpJvqy2hxphxoCEiAQAvD_BwE

Why did I stop a few things? 19.

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 Why did I stop organising crochet events in Denmark? I used to make a lot of knitting and crochet projects, some to wear, some to decorate homes, some for mindfulness, some to promote chakras and similar ideas. I had a big collection of crochet arts with Art Deco style drawings to empower women. The aim was to give them back their self-appreciation and the ability to love themselves.  I applied for events in Vanløse, Copenhagen, at the Kulturcenter or Station, which was connected with the library. I had to wait several months to get approval. I had to work with a girl who was from Greece and had an architecture education. She was married to a Danish-Greek person and had a 7-month-old son. It was in 2017. She herself had an Erasmus exchange program in Denmark, so she was also involved in Danish education as an architecture student during her university studies. But she was not hired; nobody gave her a job.  Yes! - a person with higher education - a person married to a Dan...

Why did I stop a few things? 18.

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 Why did I stop dating the Tunisian guy in Poland? In 2014, we visited his uncle, who lived in Paris. He lived there with his second wife and her son. She was born to a Muslim mother and a Christian father, and her religion was Christian, as in Muslim, the father's religion decided about the kids' religion.  She drove us to Versailles to check out the castle, once, when I was alone with her. She told me I must break up with the guy, as he wanted to sell me as a prostitute in Paris.  She was shaking, crying and more; she even gave me a ring to prove her loyalty. It was a gold ring with a white pearl. I finally did not say anything, accepted the ring, and I left the ring in the Orly airport. I pushed the ring between the pillows of a sofa.  Then, in a week, I moved back to Hungary. Source: https://www.avis.co.uk/drive-avis/car-hire-locations/europe/france/paris/orly-airport

Why did I stop a few things? 17.

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 Why did I stop working in my last job in New Zealand in 2012? As the laboratory manager, from Brazil, whose name was Thiago, made it possible for me to finish my job earlier. Source: https://blog.sheydance.com/everything-you-need-to-know-about-latin-and-reggaeton-dance/ How? He spent a lot of hours in the laboratory, and at the beginning of the harvest, we were on the same shift, but then I was on the night shift, doing lab work during the harvest. In the beginning, I was talking a lot, also about the 2008 harvest in New Zealand. That was when he learned I also had a Brazilian boyfriend. Who worked in one of the restaurants where we liked to go to eat chicken nuggets. The Brazilian guy from 2008 was a divorced man who had a 4-year-old child at that time. He was surfing in his free time, so his child is 22 years old this year. He left his wife and child in Brazil and lived in New Zealand, Blenheim.  Tiago was the son of a MA Economist from Brazil, who was a universit...

Why did I stop a few things? 16.

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 Why did I stop talking online to CBS people? I took my first education, HD1 at CBS between 2020 and 2022. That time, it was obligatory to join a Facebook group, where they told us that only students can be... I checked the subjects, and I tried to compare the list of the students from the CBS system and the Facebook group members.... There were a lot of fake profiles. First, I thought they used it to help students get a job at big companies. But then I realised the fake profiles, in most of the cases, only stole things from me, ideas. The farther we progressed in education, the worse it became! I had a chat break for a long period during the CBS studies. Why? In the first semester, I worked together with a girl from Brazil, who had a son, around age 8, and she was divorced from a Danish man. So the son nowadays can be around 14 years old. She was always mocking me if I dared to take 2 mins break to change the diaper for my second son. When? During the online meeting, when we were ...

Why did I stop a few things? 15.

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 Why did I stop having online IT mentoring? I studied a lot of courses online, you can read here on my other blog: Coding Drage https://codingdrage.blogspot.com/ I also had a person, who was hired by Hack your Future, and he once or twice a month gave one hour of volunteering at an IT course. It was only online! I stopped taking those classes, as once, I was offered or adviced or asked by him: "S*ck my d*ck!" I acted as I did not hear what he said... Then I cancelled the following meetings....  I continued to study alone. Source: https://www.inc.com/samuel-edwards/5-tips-for-learning-coding-with-no-prior-experience.html

Why did I stop a few things? 14.

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 Why did I stop going with my kids to a specific football club in 2024? For them to get more kids was a must, no matter what way! You can also give birth to extra kids! How? What? If you did not sum up with another person, then you were out... The chef told me she had 4-5 kids from 4 partners or similar... No, thank you! I come from Hungary, where they teach family planning, budget and more...  Nobody has the right to force you to get pregnant or have more kids for yourself. Being a coach to kids does not mean to give birth to all of them.... So I stopped to go to that spesific club, I never went back there!!!! Source: https://www.istockphoto.com/illustrations/big-family

Why did I stop a few things? 13.

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 Why did I stop studying Psychology at the University of Debrecen? It was already very odd for me when, in our very first class, the teacher said, 90% of the students who apply for psychology are mentally not ok. They only take the program, so they can heal themselves.  A very small number of psychologists can help other people, as they are too busy to heal themselves.  I still continued my studies, although it was a giant red flag! Then we had 13 subjects in one semester. Yes, not like in Denmark, where the maximum is three per semester.  I managed to pass 12 of the 13 subjects in that semester. Which subject did I fail? Biology. Why? The teacher, who had zero Biology diploma, he was a Chemist Engineer. He did not understand that I am Melinda, and not Judit, who is my sister, and 6 years younger than I am. That time, we looked very similar to each other. He had nostalgic feelings about my sister from the time he was an Italian teacher in a gymnasium, where my sister...

Why did I stop a few things? 12.

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Why did I stop going back to work for a specific wine company in New Zealand, and then I chose another to work in 2012?  As you remember, in 2008, I was also in South Africa, and from there I travelled to work in New Zealand. Why? I wanted to stay in South Africa, but I thought that if I travelled to New Zealand, then the Hungarian guy would be nice. But he was not! Already in the first week, he called me "hulye picsa" and a similar thing, which means "damn ass" And then he used two of my classmates, two girls, to make my life hell. Then he also got friends with two psychologists in the wine company, and they also made extra hell in my life. If it was enough, they made a big mistake. I was supposed to make a wine transfer together with another person, and they all decided that nobody would work with me; they all went on a smoking break, while the head supervisor was reading sexually influenced men's magazines in his office.... The final outcome was that I did th...

Why did I stop a few things? 11.

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Why did I stop using Facebook for three months in 2007? As a friend posted on my profile timeline, "a girl hitting by hand a 'd*ck YouTube video' with the setting public. I was new to Facebook, and I did not know how to change the settings or how to delete anything. Most of the people in Hungary started to use Facebook 4-5 years later. So for three months, I was afraid to go on Facebook. But everybody could see it. Then I went back to that profile and deleted the video. And started to use the "puke" option on the guy, so he would feel it was not nice! I "puked" his profile a 100 times... But my English was not as good, and unfortunately, it was a "poke" button :D :D :D  So I got the opposite result :D :D :D It was a very old feature on Facebook :D "The Facebook poke button is a, now revived, feature allowing users to send a virtual "nudge" to friends, acting as a simple "hello" or "thinking of you" gesture. ...

Why did I stop a few things? 10.

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Why did I stop going to IDCN meetings? Diana, who said that she has a PhD from CBS, and she was not able to get a job for two years after she got her PhD from CBS. As nobody wanted to hire her...   She had meetings and events that I really did not appreciate... on one side, they were boring, the people were not nice, mostly super proud of themselves... and Diana also treated me badly... she was super happy for all the suffering I had to go through...  This is not a consultation... 

Why did I stop a few things? 9.

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 Why did I stop travelling to New Zealand? I lived and worked there three times.  2007 2008 2012 I had good friends there, but I never returned to the country. I stopped any romantic relationship in New Zealand. When I went to New Zealand last, I told myself: No drinking! No boys! I managed to go to the dance without drinking any alcohol! I lived in New Zealand in 2012 without any boys! Why did I do it? In that time, I learned from the news that the head of the police in Auckland had a son. His gang liked to travel around the country and make girls drunk and drugged! Then they sexually terrorised them, recorded it, and uploaded it on Facebook. They did it for more than 5 years. So NO NO NO! Source: https://www.tripadvisor.dk/AttractionProductReview-g255106-d15041402-Auckland_Highlight_Fullday_City_Tour-Auckland_Central_North_Island.html

Why did I stop a few things? 8.

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Why did  I stop going to Husum? A lot of people stop going to Husum, as they are afraid of migrants. I am a migrant in Denmark, as I hold a Hungarian passport.  So for me, it was not a question.  I got a wine merchant job interview in Husum in a basement in the spring of 2016. It was a three-hour interview, which was finished by adding numbers together in my head, without a calculator. I had to add a whole A4 page Excel table, font size 10-11 max! So like around 30 numbers, some are 4-digit, some are 3-digit, some are 5-digit numbers.  This guy was married, and his wife was the accountant in the company. He finished the interview, which was 3 hours. I am too rough in Mathematics. Why? He used a calculator to make the calculation; I used my head. The difference was 3-4 max! What he calculated, what I calculated in my head, I was not allowed to write down the numbers! Then he tried to pressure me sexually. He told me that he believes I find him sexy. I told him that it...

Why did I stop a few things? 7.

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 Why did I stop dressing like the Spice Girls? Like Geri? As the boys always asked me, if I want to sweat under their d*ck? It was primary school. I stopped to dress like Geri! So I joined a religious group, and I started to dress in big hoodies and more... Source: https://www.facebook.com/magicradio/posts/on-this-day-in-1998-geri-halliwell-announced-that-she-was-leaving-spice-girls-/1106434244863894/

Why did I stop a few things? 6.

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 Why did I stop to go to a certain pub in the Tokaj wine region? It is called kocsma, not an elegant pub or club! It was a good kocsma, but one day, I went there with a classmate from Baja, she was a dark dress pure rocker... who loved to fight with anybody... she didn't acknowledge the local customs... Tokaj is not New Zealand! She was there with my help in 2008. She got into a fight with someone who had just left the prison that night! He was super angry with his friends, and wanted to hit up that girl, not me... I tried to talk out the situation, but finally the guy, the boss, who came out from the prison, wanted to kiss me.... It was very hard to talk it out myself...  I managed to convince him that he has a wife and kids, and I am sure that his wife loves him so much and wants him, so NO NO NO kiss! I succeeded.  Was it all? Nope. In a few days, he and his gang visited my house, where I lived with that girl, who had a fight, plus another girl, who lives in Sweden now...

Why did I stop a few things? 5.

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 Why did I stop working for a medical company? As in the first month, I was asked to go to Dubai for a conference. I said NO! Why? A handsome guy was just after his break-up with his fiancée... and I found it too fishy.... to join him on a conference in Dubai...  So they wanted to fire me... I stayed a few more months, finally, and then I left for New Zealand for the third time. Ps. I have never been in Dubai! Source: https://www.klm.dk/travel-guide/destinations/middle-east/united-arab-emirates/dubai

Why did I stop a few things? 4.

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 Why did I stop going to South Africa? 1. I nearly died from food poisoning.  2. I chose a Hungarian guy to love over a French guy. I met Fabian again in South Africa, and he worked for the Rothschilds. Fabian was my big crash in New Zealand in 2007. I met him in the first week, at the first party. He was a hairy monkey from Medoc, Bordeaux, France. I was very confused, as I loved him and another guy, as well, from Hungary, Roland, in 2008.:D Finally, Fabian said, he has a girlfriend in France, whom he loves, and stays with her.  So I went to New Zealand, and I discovered a new harvest in Marlborough Valley.  But the pain, losing Fabian forever, was so severe that I never returned to South Africa.  ' Source: https://franschhoek.org.za/winery/rupert-rothschild-vignerons/

Why did I stop a few things? 3.

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 I stopped to go back to one of the companies, as a good friend's uncle tried to force me for an hour to f*ck a very handsome guy. The problem was that he had a wife and three kids. It was in 2008. So I turned down both of them.... I said it was not my style. Goodbye! I was just lying on the ice-cold concrete floor in the middle of nowhere in the middle of the night to cry how much shit I must go through.... A few years later, that man died of cancer. Source: https://www.vecteezy.com/photo/49758873-background-texture-of-a-concrete-floor

Why did I stop a few things? 2.

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I used to play handball in primary school, and I was the goalkeeper. We had three goalkeepers, two boys and me. I was the best. To be a goalkeeper means to have enough mental power to push away the opposition... so they would be afraid even to come close by. The good goalkeeper is not just a jumping machine... that you can do on a trampoline....  I stopped handball, as one of the boys, who was one year older than me, but already had partly grey hair! He had some grey hair at the age of under 10! He bit my arm; his upper and lower teeth made a strong mark in my arm. For two weeks, it was purple and painful. The coach, who was a woman, said, it is ok, the stronger should win.  I leeeft that day, handball, and I never went back, even though she frightened me with a warning from the school director! Source: https://www.bostonglobe.com/sports/olympics2016/2016/08/16/onoly/AVv2tWr2aEBv20u8TepGYM/story.html

Why did I stop a few things? 1.

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 I stopped working for a certain company, as once we were travelling in the middle of the night, and the driver thought I was sleeping. He was repeating: "S*ck my d*ck!" I did not tell him that I heard everything, as I had sunglasses on and I acted as if I could not move... I was ready to jump out of the moving car any time...  Finally, he stopped talking, and as I acted, I just woke up from a deep sleep, and I did not hear anything. We never talked about it again... I stopped working for that company after my contract was over.... Even though they invited me again, I did not go to work for them... Source: https://www.womenshealthmag.com/food/a19938900/calorie-in-grapes/

Orchid 3

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  Title: Orchid 3 Painter: Melinda Erika Dothan How many times did Erika meet my grandmother? Maximum 10 times in her entire life. I was raised by my grandmother for 5,5 years, then every Summer, Spring, Autumn and Winter vacation we were in my grandmother's house.  Why? As my parents were working all the time.  How was my grandmother when it came to gifts? She always told us, do not bring anything, as she did not need them... we still brought her gifts. How did Erika manage to convince my grandmother to step on her side and not mine? Body cream.... My own grandmother sold her loyalty for body creams...  When I learned it, that she got a few bottles of body lotion, and for this it was enough to turn against me... The rest of the world broke apart.  What do I mean? I built up a picture of my grandmother, how nice she was and other positive feelings.  Then, there were two other situations in which she betrayed me. This was the third situation. And the connect...

Today, I took out my kids from BSF

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 After several misrepresented cases, I took both of my kids out of BSF.

Second Orchid

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  Titel: Second Orchid Painter: Melinda Erika Dothan What more did she not know about the Colombian? He forced me to watch movies, which were about how much people suffer when they have a drug addiction. I had to see a dead baby in the movie, whose skin turned green, as he had overdosed on cocaine, as his parents were drug addicts. The Colombian had to see a lot of suffering during his 5 years in the army.... And Erika was jealous of him.... Drogs are not fun! Does not matter if you do it in your home! Especially when you ignore the kids' lives! So when you take drugs next to the kids... it is garbage!!!

Preparation to the second orchid painting

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  Preparation for the second orchid painting Painter: Melinda Erika Dothan Why was Erika jealous of the Colombian guy? She saw a picture of him, and she was super jealous on her own wedding day... she already wanted a new man... Why was she more jealous? As she did not know the story, I had already gone through it with him. He had to go through the pain when his mother got cancer, and just started to get better by the Summer, but for 1 year he had this challenge... Do you know what happened to Erika's husband in a very short period? He got cancer.... It is very bad to be jealous.... 

First Orchid

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Titel: First Orchid Painter: Melinda Erika Dothan  What was the hairdresser's name when she was born? Szamos Erika. Szamos was the family name, and Erika was her given name. Her mother was Erika as well.  My mother has a name Erika as well. But my mother was born to my grandmother, whose name was Szamos Terezia before marriage, and Nagy Jozsefne, after marriage, and when my grandfather passed away, Ozv. Nagy Jozsefne. Yes, a lot of Erika.... Was my grandmother's other brother in a better situation? The other Szamos brother was also married to a woman, who finally had a child from another man....  So my grandmother never talked with that woman again. With the Ukrainian Erika, who opened a wedding dress salon, they talked a bit...  Why? They invited us to the second wedding of Erika....  What did I do there? I went with my grandmother to help her, but I was busy with my Colombian boyfriend.  And Erika was jealous of that guy as well...  That summer, the ...

Intro to another blog, another course. Orchids and more

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 I used to have 12 orchids and more. I also had a pink orchid fairy! I had to give them away, as too many women and men were super jealous of the outcome of my hard work. They were super lazy to see my hard work. They were ready to be mental killers to take away whatever they could. Shamless people...  When I was to finish HD1 at CBS, the wife, who had 10 kids... ordered a lot of newcomers together to shame me as a prostitute... as she herself also just wanted to have her lifestyle, and destroy what I had. My mother's mother had two brothers from the same mother and father, one brother from another mother and father, and one sister from the same father and another mother. One of her brothers, who was born to the same parents as she, moved to Tata to work in mining. He was around 40 years old when a girl, around 18 years old, moved from Ukraine to Hungary to marry him. They had a girl who was 5 years older than me. Her education is in hairdressing.  They divorced very quic...

Done! Section 1-2 - Your First Simple Android App in Java

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 As I wrote in the previous post, I purchased or enrolled on this course in 2018... I used Android Studio a few years later. Parts: Section 1: - introduction Section 2: - How to Set Up Android Studio Anyway, you can check out my other blogs as well, like  Coding Drage https://codingdrage.blogspot.com/ This was inspired partly by my online CBS studies and my family... Who? Coding, Danske Bank, Digital course, Martial Art, Disney studio in that time was closed to Ballerup...  they over made it, still in that time it was funny to start Lunar....  Source: https://ukaeg.com/case-study/will-ferrell-in-will-power-x-lunar/

New Course: Your First Simple Android App in Java

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I was enrolled on Mon, Aug 20, 2018. This was the original title: Mobile App Development in 27 Minutes: Android Personal Intro to Java and Android Studio:  Ok, so in the first week of the Covid-19 lockdown in Denmark, I gave birth to my second son. I also took the second time all the 5 modules of  Danish classes. I finished in 2016 at Copenhagen University, with a program in Academics. Martin was my first Danish teacher. Then, as we lived in Ballerup, I wanted to refresh my Danish knowledge, and I took the courses again.  But there was a point when I found it too difficult to sit on hard chairs when I was pregnant. So I shifted to online education. So I could do my classes and homework at home in a much more comfortable and pregnancy-friendly environment.  Let's jump to the CO>VID-19 lockdown. So after I gave birth, I started the regular stuff, like breastfeeding, meeting the nurse, baby yoga and similar things. That time, I was only a member of two motherhood gro...