First Orchid


Titel: First Orchid
Painter: Melinda Erika Dothan

 What was the hairdresser's name when she was born?

Szamos Erika.

Szamos was the family name, and Erika was her given name.

Her mother was Erika as well. 

My mother has a name Erika as well.

But my mother was born to my grandmother, whose name was Szamos Terezia before marriage, and Nagy Jozsefne, after marriage, and when my grandfather passed away, Ozv. Nagy Jozsefne.


Yes, a lot of Erika....

Was my grandmother's other brother in a better situation? The other Szamos brother was also married to a woman, who finally had a child from another man.... 


So my grandmother never talked with that woman again.

With the Ukrainian Erika, who opened a wedding dress salon, they talked a bit... 

Why?

They invited us to the second wedding of Erika.... 


What did I do there?

I went with my grandmother to help her, but I was busy with my Colombian boyfriend. 

And Erika was jealous of that guy as well... 

That summer, the romance was over with the Colombian boy, and he got married to a local girl. 


Why was I not interested in Erika's second wedding?

As her mother told me all the sad stories about her second marriage...

The police officer in the beginning had serious alcohol problems, so he was beating Erika, Erika's mother... 

So the Ukrainian Erika got married to another man to have a better life, but he had three extra kids, a wedding dress salon, and decades of family harassment... 


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