How to get over challanges, if they come from other women to women?

 Nah, I wrote this post regarding the sleeping course.

I used to have a friend from New Zealand in Denmark; she had a daughter, who was a few months older than my first son.

The last time I met her, she was super angry about everything....

She used to live in London for 10 years, then, for her Danish husband, she moved to Denmark for a very challanging economical situatiation.

She was a strong woman, but it was hard for her.

She studied in Dunedin, and her mommy worked for the Army in Blenheim.

Yes, Blenheim, where I lived three times. 


She was angry with Denmark, and the economical challanges... she was angry with me as well, as I was married. She was married as well. But it was her second marriage. She left New Zealand a very long time ago, as she divorced her previous husband there. 


Then, for years, we did not talk. She moved to Valby, and she got pregnant, when I already had my second child, around 3 years old. 

She did not say hi to me... she was super proud of herself, as she managed to get out of the economical challanges.... 


Am I angry with her?

Nope, I was only once angry with her, just a little bit...

When she kept the very good wine that I brought to everybody, and then she served a shit one... 

But even this, I forgave her. Why?

It was from New Zealand, and I knew where to buy good wine from New Zealand, but she did not!


Not every Kiwi, it means people from New Zealand know how to buy good wine, but they recognise it :D




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